can i commend to you this obituary of a real hero ?
http://www.guardian.co.uk/print/0,3858,5371551-103684,00.html
http://www.guardian.co.uk/print/0,3858,5371551-103684,00.html
of the seven deadly sins, the eighth and worst by far is emotional blackmail ... the diligent practise of this subtle and ancient art creates a constantly evolving darwinistic moral vacuum in which the brightest new manipulative ideas and stratagems flourish ... and which only you, or i, can fill !